Do you ever feel like stranded between something and don’t know what it is. You see people flourishing and don’t know what is holding you back.
Constant setbacks lead us to give up. But one should identify ones strengths and see what is inviting all of the obstacles in your life and why are you still not at the pinnacles of achievement and what you should do boost your fortitude.
Why your are not hungry enough for success?
Following are the top five reasons why your thirst for success isn’t profound enough.
Don’t play Blame game
Stop blaming everyone or everything for your loss and failure. One should let go of your attachment to the problem. We all go through numerous trials and tribulations in life but it’s up to you whether you rise from the ashes or become one. There is no good in cursing life or people around you instead we should focus on improving oneself and become better.
“Whenever something bad happens to you, there is a deep lesson concealed within it”-Eckhart Tolle
You’re not responsible for everything faulty
Feeling guilty about not coming up to others or your own expectations is not the end of the world. You can’t blame yourself for everything. It will only lower your self- esteem and motivation. Crying over your mistakes is useless, learn from it and move on.
Take your life in your own hands
Start believing in yourself today. It’s better to take charge of your life to make it fulfilling and successful rather than just waiting around to see what happens next. Stop thinking yourself as a victim and start focusing on things which you did wrong or where you can make a positive change. There’s always room for improvement. Take responsibility of yourself, do your best and show gratitude towards everything you have. You’ll see a definite change.
“If you do not believe in yourself, No one will do it for you”-Kobe Bryant.
Stop being a people’s pleaser
As it is said:
First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you then you win”-Ghandi
There will always be very few people who will actually be happy at your success and will greet you wholeheartedly. Most of them out there are trapped by the feelings of hatred and envying others. Follow your own heart and never let others control your decisions. Learn to say No and stop overthinking. Do what feels you good. You have this one life make yourself proud.
Make your own choices
Don’t take steps that you will regret later. Do what makes you happy and never let others opinions effect your choice. Learn to say your own thoughts not others. What you will be tomorrow depends on your decisions that you make today. Choose wisely.
“Blaze your own trail in life. Make your own choices and make your own mistakes. It’s the only way you will find your own happiness, not someone else’s” – M.Leighton